Hit a brick wall.. someone find me a ladder?

What do you do when your sailing though life having the time of it and then you hit a brick wall that's appeared in front of you?
You run back and try again, but the brick wall is still there, and you still can't get though it?!

So you keep trying until your just fed up. Those that were walking with you have walked away or are just watching from the side. Still kind of waiting for you to get past it but rolling there eyes every time you fail to get over it again. In the end your just tired, bruised and red faced from all the times you have tried and failed to get over this wall. You can't see straight any more and this repetitive failing has made me you lose faith in yourself.

I think what you really need to do is walk away, and stop, and breath. Let the red face disappear, and the pain subside, and then go out and buy a ladder.

But this isnt the easiest task for someone who has ran at a wall for months in the hope it might move one day, it hard to break the repetative rut!

When you feel totally lost with yourself and alone and like everyone is watching from the sidelines, but no one is helping you and your too scared to leave and buy a ladder just incase it will change things then you have to stop, and find yourself again and think it all though before you can keep going again.